Sunday, August 19, 2012

An End and a Beginning



Bees dance when they have something to say. They came to my yard one day to show me how they speak. In this photo, a bee dances in the center of a crowd of listeners. Guided by some sort of spirit, a hive nearby knew it was time to split the community, and the queen took half her servants in search of a new home. They rested for a few hours in one of my rose bushes, and they showed me how the scouts direct the swarm to a suitable new hive, an amazing display of sustainable choices and a great mystery in the natural order of life.


In contrast, we humans tend to be rigid in our beliefs, convinced that our brains know the way of things. We often don't question our knowledge and indoctrinations, mistaking our judgments and opinions for a Universal Truth.

For the past six months I've been on an expedition, like the bees. There have been upheavals and discoveries, sadness and epiphanies. I wondered if my stories here had reached their appointed end. Today, like the bees that paused at my house this past spring, I'm going to dance my story.

What in God’s Name?


You can call God Max if you want to,
says the woman who mentors me
in matters spiritual and guttural
between phone calls to her oncologist
and shopping trips for still more hats
for yet another season of baldness.

I don’t mind being juggled between
the specialists and their repercussions,
a sunny yellow ball shining among
the dry-blood spheres of toxic doctors
and the baby blues of her infant head.
I have her here now, and laughing,
certain she won’t die today, not before
she finishes the job I handed her:
Find a God for me, the newly godless.

On the Fourth of July, she told me
God might dwell in fireworks,
a pyrotechnic atom all crackling red
and shimmering gold. Before that,
she said he dallied in the roses
for my clippers to unleash him,
and before that, she said he bided
at my mother’s, humming in the
sprinkler lines I mended, mourning.

I seek wherever she sends me because
I fired the irascible Judge with a clipboard
the day I found my mother up to her elbows
stirring turds in her toilet with a conviction
only the demented can muster. As I begged
the God of my mother to release his
faithful servant from her shitty life,
the scales fell from my eyes: Suddenly
I knew that old Curmudgeon suffered
psychological disorders, eons untreated,
and I forsook him on the spot. But I
was groomed since birth for God,
the fear of blasphemy embedded deep
in my reptilian brain. To be godless is
to be legless, sightless, hopeless, damned.

As my mentor fights for life, she leads me
through her curious garden, pungent with
the scents of anarchy and heresy, assigning
my tasks: Glean that field of God particles,
rake the fallen leaves under Tolstoy’s vine,
take cuttings from the tree of Martin Luther.
Here she has planted every rotten thing
that ever came to her, and made it bloom:
the young and dead, the broken, unjust,
the bitter losses and the insidious cancer
that tries to claim her every few years.

Here each stone and growing shoot
holds meaning, a miniature magnificence
that speaks of something so immense,
it can’t be grasped. But I reach anyway,
oh puny hand, for some divine, redemptive
purpose in my mother stirring turds
and all the other shocking shit of life.

You can call him Max, my mentor says:
Think about that. So I consider this
ludicrous thought: calling my new God
the name I circled in red ink in a baby book
so long ago, chosen for a son I never had.
Would I be free at last, I ask, of the tyrant
who ordains impossible standards knowing
I will fail, my eternal, horrid, raging father?
Hello, Max, I say, reaching out my hand,
and something brushes against my palm:
a weightless kiss of wings, or lips.






16 comments:

Brian Miller said...

sounds like you have been on quite the journey...some interesting thoughts in this as well, rather like the brush of your palm by max there....great to see you chris...

soberinoctober said...

Chris, its Kristin. I've moved blogs. And I've missed you. Thank you for reaching out.

Syd said...

Chris, nice to read you again. Your journey sounds mysterious

the walking man said...

..and there ya have the essence of the nature of Max. But I have always been curious why Max gets all the blame for evil shit and never credit fo good? even though I doubt Max does much to support or inhibit either.

The Bug said...

I think I might like to meet Max too. Although in my case it might be Mary, or Sarah, instead of Max.

Being with someone through an illness like that is gut-wrenching - it just is, no matter how they handle it. I like that she gave you homework to ease your time away from her.

Carrie Burtt said...

"Here each stone and growing shoot holds meaning, a miniature magnificence that speaks of something so immense, it can't be grasped. But I reach anyway,"....What a beautiful piece of writing Chris! So glad that you are back....we have missed you very much!!!

e said...

Thank you for leaving a message for me. I sincerely hope you are well and that your stories have not yet reached their end. I am always reachable via e-mail whether blogging or not. Be well.

Carol Steel 5050 said...

This story moves me; both the parts I know and identify with and the parts that are unknown yet so clearly imaged that they stand stark before me. Powerful. Thank you for sharing this.

RNSANE said...

Oh, Chris, I have checked here often as the months passed by, hoping you were well...as I went to India for four months, came home for 2-1/2 and returned once again to India, this time for nearly six months. I've been trying to find myself in this ancient and mysterious land of such contrasts and disparity, sadness and beauty, wealth and poverty.

Your writing, as always, touches me and stirs memories of my own relationship with my mother.

I am so glad to see you here again, though I am pretty absent. I'll be back in the Bay area in mid November and, hopefully, I might see you sometime before I return again ( at least, I hope I can come back...I did get a ten year visa! ) to India.

rosaria williams said...

This is most beautiful!

G-Man said...

Chris...
Hi, Some people miss you on Fridays you know....G

Hope said...

I like the sound of Max.

Dianne said...

Oh honey!
So much here, as I ponder lying to God.
Walking and listening for each day's whispered "hello "...is all I know .....
Nice press stories, BTW. And cow-pie burgers .....(summer fun )
Di

Zed said...

I have so missed you and as you have been searching, so have I. YOu have found your 'Max' I have not. http://justnotliketheothers.blogspot.com xxx

Terra said...

A weightless kiss of wings; that is a beautiful image. I hope things are well with you, it sounds like heavy times for a while.

rosaria williams said...

You are missed.

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